To stay home

Or not stay home?? that is the question. Nick has asked me to figure out if I make enough for me to truly keep working or if I am just spending too much to work. The benefits are being home with the kids, going and volunteering in school, having time to work out and keep the house clean, and be less tired. I would go to Real Estate school on top of my wedding planning school so I would have extra income coming in from helping his dad. So the only con was I would not have my own money but we figured that out. I really want to do it, it is just hard going from working all the time since 15 to nothing.